STFU, Parents

“You used to be fun. Now you have a baby. If you're being driven crazy by your friends' baby updates every time you check your status feed, please feel free to contribute to this blog. stfuparentsblog@gmail.com Also on Twitter: twitter.com/STFUParents *submissions can be text, screen capture, anonymous, etc.*”

No, this is definitely NOT anything I am promoting. I recently read a friend’s post on Facebook where she had reported this Group because she felt it was ‘attacking’ parents. I agree somewhat.

Honestly, I didn’t read EVERY post on their site. I looked at a few and I gathered my conclusions from that. I thought the page was quite ridiculous. I will be the first to admit that my kids are my entire world and I will post whatever I want to about my kids whenever I want. A friend introduced me to Facebook so that we could keep in contact because she lived a few hours away and wanted to see pictures of my daughter. So now I am in contact with many, many parents and am able to watch my friends’ kids grow up. I consider myself lucky because without this I wouldn’t be able to see or hear about the daily accomplishments of my closest friends.

I can say I do agree with a few things they say on this site. I do not agree that you need to post everything on Facebook. We should have a little respect for our children & ourselves to keep certain things to ourselves. For example, the picture of the boy who accidentally went to the bathroom in his pants. Was this really necessary??? This picture will still be around when the boy is 15 and what’s going to happen when his friends find out about this? It’s cruel and should be addressed to the parents but not to everyone else on the internet. Instead of posting this on STFU, Parents on Facebook to get attention, why couldn’t this ‘concerned citizen’ discreetly send a message to the person who posted the picture explaining that this could potentially cause this child some embarrassment later in life?

There is also a post about a Soon-To-Be Mom having her baby shower at a bar. Yes this is a free country but really????!!! It makes me think about what this mom is going to really be like. Is she really ready to be a mom? What type of people will this mom have the baby around? People may think I am overprotective but there are boundaries. I like to introduce my kids to new things and different cultures but alcoholism isn’t one of them!

I am a proud mom and I love posting my kids accomplishments so they can make fun of me all they want. I believe in Constitutional Rights and Freedom of Speech. They can say what they want about us, Proud Mommies, and we can keep on giving them stuff to talk about. That’s the way the world works. No matter what someone is never happy. Are these people jealous because we have some pretty great kids or are they just looking for attention?? Not sure but what I can say is that I love my kids & am going to yell it from the top of the tallest mountain!

This is definitely my opinion and in no way am I bashing this website. I am merely stating everyone has his/her own opinions. What’s your opinion on this matter?

Fatigue

Many people suffer from fatigue... whether it be schedules are too hectic, poor eating habits, lack of exercise, or perhaps there are medical symptoms that need to be addressed. I am researching the best ways to get rid of fatigue because I am one of the many people who are looking for help in this area. Here are a few steps to getting relief.

Instructions

1. The first thing to do is sit down and assess your priorities and rank their importance. Then make some important decisions. Too hectic a life can cause fatigue. Our bodies are not meant to live on a few hours sleep. 7-8 solid hours is preferred... This is one that is of extreme difficulty for me since my son doesn't sleep through the night all the time.
2. Protein and complex carbohydrates are essential to any diet. If you're eating too much sugar and fat, cut down. If you need a pick-me-up in the afternoon, consider protein instead of a candy bar. Eat complete balanced meals including a good breakfast.
3. No matter how tired you are, exercise. Exercise will improve your mood, give you energy, and help you fall into a deeper sleep, so you will feel rested in the morning. I also have a difficult time with this... It is hard to exercise with a 16 month old. I am constantly running around after him but never just go for a jog... this is something I have to work on.
4. Sleep is important. Our bodies should receive 7-8 hours of rest a day. If you're not getting enough sleep, go back to step 1 and look at your priorities.
5. If your fatigue is not improving after making changes in your life, consider seeing a doctor. Diabetes, depression, chronic pain as well as other medical conditions will cause fatigue and may require medication. We live hectic lives, but we need to take control and fight fatigue.

My Psychic Experience!

I was checking my email a couple days ago and noticed I had an email from a psychic named Tara. In the subject line it said “Good Fortune Coming Your Way In The Next 30 Days” so I decided to see what it said, not that I believe any of this kind of stuff but if you only knew what was going on in my life then you would definitely not blame me for taking all the optimism I can get! I will copy & paste a portion of the email:

Misty, it’s certain!
Great good fortune should enter your life sometime in the next 30 days.
Here’s why:

Misty, I want you to read this very unusual message carefully.
What I have to tell you is extremely important if A NUMBER OF FORTUNATE EVENTS THAT ARE ALMOST MIRACULOUS, AND THAT ARE GOING TO TRANSFORM YOUR DESTINY (both emotionally and financially) are to take place.

All this may surprise you, but you should know that Luck is about to turn in your favor and enable GREAT GOOD FORTUNE to intervene IN YOUR LIFE IN THE NEXT 30 DAYS.
Here’s why I am so sure:
Last night I had a premonitory dream about your immediate future, Misty.
I had amazing visions about fortunate events that should affect your emotional and financial life.
This year will be your year of Luck and Happiness in all the most important areas of your life.
I will reveal exactly what you need to know so that your life changes for the better after you read this message.
But first there’s something even MORE IMPORTANT I have to talk to you about. It concerns a small part of my premonitory dream which could have serious consequences, and which really requires your complete attention.
I had a very STRANGE SENSATION during the premonition. It was as if there was an abnormal presence around you, Misty.

A kind of negative entity was trying to exert A HARMFUL INFLUENCE ON YOU and on your environment, in the hope of dragging you down into a spiral of negative energy.
You’ll have to be careful of any negative people around you, so that you can prevent things from getting blocked, and becoming even worse.
I can assure you that I will do everything necessary to place you under psychic protection. This is very important for you, because SOMETHING VERY SURPRISING IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN TO YOU.
Above all, don’t take what I’m telling you lightly. You will have an extremely important decision to make very soon. A DECISION THAT REALLY CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
Something exceptional is going to happen to you before 30 days are up, and there is A LARGE FINANCIAL GAIN at stake that you must not miss out on.
I can’t give you any more precise information about the specific amount you will receive, but it certainly is a large sum of money that will be important to you.
My feeling tells me it is A VERY LARGE JACKPOT. In my dream I saw you feverishly waving a game receipt, jumping for joy as the winning numbers were announced.
But there’s something that worries me a little, Misty.
I recently sent you an e-mail. I waited for news from you, but I didn’t receive any answer.
I don’t know exactly why you didn’t respond. But that’s not what is most important.
What is important is that you know that a large jackpot should soon be yours, which could solve all the financial difficulties your are having now.
I’m telling you this because I know that you’ve been having a hard time, financially speaking, and that if I don’t help you, your main problem will probably not be resolved, and could even get worse.
It makes me sad to see you in this kind of situation, Misty.
If only you had allowed me to intervene on your behalf and help you a few days ago, I’m certain your destiny could have already improved.
I know that in your situation you almost certainly think it’s too late for your life to really change overnight. I understand. But I also have to tell you that you are wrong!

THERE’S SOMETHING IMPORTANT THAT YOU ABSOLUTELY MUST BE AWARE OF, Misty.
After carefully analyzing the astral chart of your destiny, all indications are that a year of exceptional good luck is in store for you.
This is due to the unusual configuration of a number of astral planets that are particularly influential for you, in terms of luck, happiness and success.
That means that, starting on November 07 2010 a period of 3 months of profound change will begin for you, followed by another 3 months that will also be very beneficial.
That will be the perfect time for you to resolve all your problems once and for all, and to finally experience a real and profound transformation in your life.
I know for certain that during a future ASTRAL PERIOD OF GOOD FORTUNE, you are going to meet someone who will certainly be ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE.
Misty, you can expect 3 really exceptional months as far as your finances are concerned. That will be followed by 3 more months of happiness in your personal life.
There are also a few negative points that you have to be careful about. But don’t worry – I’m here to guide you.
I will help you plan your life so that you can avoid certain obstacles that may arise, and tell you how you can create a positive and happy outcome for yourself.
I will tell you exactly what to do to make the beneficial period that is coming your way A YEAR FILLED WITH FORTUNE AND UNHOPED-FOR EVENTS.

So I read this email and think to myself “Should I buy a lottery ticket?” Heck yes I should! What could it hurt? I spend a couple dollars and it could change my life… highly unlikely but yes I could get lucky and hit the jackpot. After I thought about winning the lottery, I immediately thought “What would I really do if I won the lottery?” I honestly would not go crazy with it. Yes I would buy a house but it would not be anything outrageous. I would buy my mom and dad new vehicles. I would want to take my sisters shopping for a few new clothes. Jadyn, Jake, Alexis, and Ethan would all get one big toy each… maybe a Power Wheels car or something. I honestly can’t think of anything else I would want than that. No diamonds, no Mercedes, no house on the beach with an indoor pool. I would finish my degree and hopefully work a job I love but no matter what I would still work. I think it’s retarded for someone who wins the lottery to completely give up on working. The odds are too great that the money is going to run out and yes I would rather save the money for a rainy day than to think it’s going to last forever and then be broke & out of a job in 5 years like many lottery winners end up. I am a single mother of 2 kids so I know I can survive on very little so even an extra $5,000 a year would be like heaven to me. A good portion of my winnings would go to helping children and families of children with cancer.

What would you do if you won the lottery? I guess we will see if November 7, 2010 will be my day to hit the jackpot like this psychic says. :)

Greater Peace

To enjoy your work and accept your lot in life – that is indeed a gift from God. People who do this rarely look with sorrow on the past, for God has given them reasons for joy.
— Ecclesiastes 5:19–20 (NLT)

I have heard of people completely altering their lives in order to achieve greater peace within. For some people this is probably a good thing but how much change is too much? Don’t get me wrong, I am definitely a firm believer in giving to those in need whether it is food to eat, a place to sleep, or simply an ear to listen to their worries but can this ever be too much?

There are certain books on changing our entire lives to live a simpler, more fulfilling lifestyle. They focus on getting rid of all of the waste, clutter, and unnecessary expenses.  Hoarding is a problem that many of us face today. We go shopping and think “Oh, this purse is on sale so I am gonna get it.” Two years and 20 other purses later, it’s still sitting in the bag it came in because it didn’t match any outfit we had at the time. This doesn’t just happen to women, it happens to men. My dad is one of the world’s worst! He buys things from people who need money and these things are either broken or Dad has no use for them so they sit collecting dust. The good part is that he is helping others but on the other hand his yard is full of junk!

 Everything that does not come from faith is sin -Rom. 14:23

That means you can live a good life and be the nicest person in the world, but if you don’t live by faith in God, your good deeds don’t mean a thing. All-in-all we need to live for Jesus, not for ourselves.

I don’t mean to offend anyone. I am simply stating what I believe. I definitely want your opinions whether it be for or against what I believe.

Very First Blog

Today is my very first time ever posting a blog. I am a newbie but I am definitely going to try to keep you entertained!

I will start out by telling a snippit about me. My name is Misty and I have the 2 most amazing kids in the whole world. I know what you are thinking. You are thinking that EVERY mother says this but what you don't know is that EVERY mother is lying except me... My kids are seriously the bomb-diggity! I have never in my life seen 2 more humorous kids than Jadyn & Jake.

Jadyn is 5. She is in Kindergarten & LOVES IT! She is extremely intelligent. She is a retired undefeated beauty queen. 

Jake (Also known as Jakers, Jacob, Jackson-Hewitt, Jack, and NO-NO!) turned one in June. He is going to be the next Peyton Manning. Jake loves sports and making people laugh. And he has 2 different colored eyes... definitely gonna have to watch him when he gets older! 

So those are my kids in a nut-shell... Check back tomorrow when the real magic begins!